Style

Elegant Office Outfits

April 11, 2021

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If you happen to work in a corporate environment, amidst the stress, the last thing you probably want to put much effort into is a stylish outfit. You are probably more concerned about getting that contract signed or closing off a deal or meeting a partner at a firm for the first time. In all these circumstances and more, first impressions are vital. You don’t necessarily have to spend hours getting ready but you would do well to follow these tips to ensure you look presentable, smart and have an elegant office outfit.

Wear culottes

Not only are culottes super comfortable, they can also look extremely chic too. If you don’t particularly want to wear fitted trousers, culottes are excellent because they are friction free. You can opt for plain colours, pleated or with a checked pattern

Add a splash of colour

Ladies, please don’t think that you need to stick to navy, black and white in the office. If you don’t have to stick to a colour scheme, add some colour to your outfit. Colour can add vibrancy to what may be quite a dull outfit

Wear a good quality bag

A beautiful bag is a great way to add class to your office outfits. This is one of the first things people notice. If you do have to stick to a particular colour code, this gives you leeway to experiment with colours and fabrics. Timeless designer handbags for your levelling-up journey

Opt for collarless blouses

If you are not keen on wearing formal shirts, collarless blouses look super chic especially when worn under a blazer. It is looser, more flowy and still enables you to look elegant but less formal. Excellent fabrics for these types of blouses are satin and silk.

Wear bow blouses

Bow blouses are extremely feminine and are very classy if you are trying to strike a balance between looking very corporate and relaxed. They are stylish and can be worn with everything from skirts, trousers and culottes.

Add high waisted skirts and trousers to your wardrobe

If you are not a fan of waist belts, high waist skirts and trousers can provide a great alternative. High waist garments are very chic and are excellent if you have wide hips and waist. If you don’t have either, then a peplum top also does this trick.

Master the art of the waist belt

Waist belts are an excellent way to enhance your feminine silhouette. They tick in the less than slightly parts of your body whilst being a great fashion accessory. Opt for a wide belt to enhance your figure- however thinner belts are also incredibly stylish.

Wear mid-sized heels

Heels are a fabulous way to boost your confidence in the office as their help stabilise your posture. It also gives you a more sharp, polished look. Practical precautions should be taken if you are walking on hard floors. Ensure your shoes are free or worn out heels to avoid slipping and annoying your colleagues with the sound of your heels. Block heels can be equally elegant too- and easier to walk in than stilettos.

Invest in great quality hosiery

Whatever you choose from the list ensure your clothes are always clean and pressed, hosiery is free of ladders (keep a spare pair in your bag) and ensure your shoes are polished for an elegant office outfit.

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Style

How to be Elegant in High Heels

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April 11, 2021

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Do you Love or Loathe Heels?

Are you the type to wear heels on every occasion? What kinds of heels do you tend to wear?

Ladies if you do love heels this post is for you. If you loathe heels, this post is also for you.

It is a given that the type of heels you wear definitely depends on the occasion and circumstance. There is nothing more baffling than seeing a woman waddle through the rain to catch the bus or buckling on paving stones in a pair of four-inch heels. There is a time and place for this kind of footwear. It is also equally mortifying to see a woman wearing three-inch platform heels to her work colleague’s auntie’s daughter’s baby shower. In essence, the only things that could go wrong with heels are: 1. The place you are wearing them to; 2. the height of the heel and 3; the quality. Everything else you can circumvent (well, almost). So, without further ado, let’s go into more detail and I promise you, once you have taken these tips on board, you will become a true elegant lady, who walks effortlessly in heels.

What types of heels?

When choosing a pair of heels to wear, the first thing that should influence your decision is the occasion. You need to ask yourself how appropriate are the shoes to wear to the event/occasion. One of the main deciding factors will be the height of the heel. Christian Louboutin once famously said ‘the higher the better’. Ladies, this is just not true! There is nothing elegant about a woman who is clearly struggling to walk in heels and who simply ends up looking like a blind duck-billed platypus-with bunions! You must choose a heel height that is high enough to exude femininity but comfortable enough to walk in- and even sit in. You don’t want to have to remove your shoes half- way through the dinner party because you are in agonising pain. Make sure you get the correct size for your feet and even wear gel insoles to ensure comfort.

Wedges

Wedges are an excellent choice to wear to polo matches as this enables you to walk freely in the vicinity without having to worry about getting your heels stuck in the grass. It also provides you with good height. They are also very elegant and looks good with trousers, skirts and dresses.

Block heels

Block heels are a great style of shoe to wear as this kind of heel is not only very stylish but also is very comfortable. These types of heels are suitable to wear in all kinds of occasions from the office to a day out at the mall.

Ballet pumps

Flat shoes are such a chic and cute way to complete a ladylike outfit when attending a polo match. If you are not inclined to wear heels, invest in a beautiful pair of leather pumps which are not only comfortable but also stylish and appropriate for the hot weather. Our favourite ballet pumps for 2020

Stilettos

Stilettos are the creme de la creme of the elegant lady’s shoe closet. Stilletos are chic, elegant and sexy all at once! These pointed beauties can be worn with almost any outfit and can glam up any look.

Stilettos are a beautiful shoe that makes you look taller and forces you to correct your posture but can also go wrong. As a rule of thumb, ensure yoou heels are not too high for comfort. Avoid platform heels with short and tight dresses as these could potentially look tacky.

Where to wear them

Whether you have been invited to a wedding, conference, dinner party or polo match, you could actually end up ruining your day/evening because your shoes have become so unbearably uncomfortable. Ladies, it is essential that you choose the right type of shoe for the occasion.

Polo match

This is a great occasion to network with the upper echelons of society and also the perfect occasion to dress up. Polo matches normally take place during the spring/summer months in the western hemisphere and all year round in other parts of the world such as South Africa, Ghana etc. Ordinarily, spectators watch the match from the side lines, away from the playing field. However, at many polo matches, spectators can come onto the playing field after the match to meet and greet the polo players and take pictures etc. If this is the case, it will be sensible to take into consideration the kind of heels you wear.

Evening ball

If wearing a floor sweeping gown, mid heels are ideal if you want more height. However, as your feet are likely to be covered, it will probably be worthwhile taking a sensible approach to your footwear. Of course, you wouldn’t want to wear an unattractive pair of rubber shoes but you would do well to wear an elegant mid heel stiletto or a higher, thicker heel. This will also enable you to have a successful meet and greet and dance the night away.

First date

I once made the silly mistake of meeting my date for the first time in a pair of 120mm Pigalle Louboutin’s outside a busy London underground station. Not only could I not walk in them, I was also in immense pain. I looked ridiculous trying walk on the cobbled streets. Needless to say, I took them off and humbly wore my flat shoes for the rest of the evening. He later admitted to me later on that he hates those shoes. I don’t blame him. Moral of the story- leave the 120’s for posing at the dinner table.

Work/ Business Conference

Heels are a great way to exude confidence when you are at corporate events as long as your heels are a height you will feel comfortable walking and standing in, Steer away from any open toe and platform styles and ensure your heels are not worn out. Again, stick to neutral shades such as black and navy as these are formal colours which tend not to distract.

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Beauty

Perfume- Why it Matters

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April 11, 2021

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FRAGRANCE

Myriads of choices are available whether you walk into Harrods, your local supermarket or pharmacy, there is a variety on display, gracing the glass cabinets. As you are on the road to levelling up your look into becoming an elegant woman, the small things matter just as much as the obvious things. It is a given that good personal hygiene is very important but what about the cherry on the cake? I remember when I was a little girl, every time my mother would go out- even to the local post office, her signature scent would permeate the room. Once I smelt that, I knew she was on her way out or out already. Knowing by Estee Lauder had my mum’s name written all over it. Let’s explore the reasons why perfume is important and a significant part of your leveling- up journey.

Perfume complements a look

Ladies could you imagine looking stunning in an amazing gown, with your make-up and hair looking splendid- only to smell like sweaty armpits? This would instantly kill the look! Not only should we look the part but we must also smell the part too! An amazing smelling perfume completes your overall look and this isn’t limited to just grand evening balls; perfume could be worn every day of the week. Just don’t forget to tailor your smell to the occasion. If you are going to your office job, a very strong, distinctive scent may be inappropriate.

Perfume is feminine

There is nothing more feminine and elegant than seeing a beautifully dressed woman who smells incredible. It is also a sign that she cares about her appearance and how she is perceived to people.

Timeless scents

Some beautiful scents worth investing in:

Guerlain Insolence,

Chanel No.5,

Yves Saint Laurent Opium

Tom Ford Black Orchid

Valentino Donna

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Lifestyle

How to Avoid Body Odour

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April 11, 2021

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Have you ever had a bath, walked out the house and shortly after smell an odour? Have you ever experienced a foul, lingering smell after a light workout at the gym? Do your friends seem uncomfortable around you? Do your friends make comments about a disturbing smell piercing the air every time you are around? Well, sorry to break it to you but you may suffer from body odour.

What is the cause of body odour?

Caused when bacteria lingers in on parts of your body where air flow is restricted such as your armpits, between thighs and feet. This is usually exacerbated by hot weather and general poor health. However, do not fret. This is a problem you can get rid of and get back on track to becoming an elegant woman

Shower at least twice a day

This is something you can’t skip if you want to maintain odour free. If you are prone to sweating easily showring to get rid of the dry sweat is essential

Drink plenty of water

Drinking plenty of water will enable you to remain hydrated and improve circulation. When you are undertaking activity such as exercise, constant hydration throughout your regimen will flush out toxins within your body to help you stay cool, fresh and odour free- and gives you superb skin too!

Use an effective anti perspirant

There are huge ranges of deodorants available in local stores and some brands promise protection of up to 48 hours. These are extremely effective so consider purchasing these. If you are oversensitive to such products, conside using organic products or ones which contain natural healing properties such as aloe vera. Anti perspirants aren’t as effective when used on damp skin as water particls that are left behind an cause a foul odour so make sure you dry problem areas thoroughly before using. However, ensure your skin is adequately moisturised before using these products as their harsh nature can cause your skin to crack.

Use fragrance free products for feminine parts of your body

This is essential as you could have allergic reactions if your skin is sensitive and you use harsh products. There are many products on the market such as Simple and Femfresh that cater to women who have sensitive skin.

Wear natural fibres

Natural fibres such as cotton and linen are excellent as they facilitate airflow around areas of your body. They are friction free and allow all parts of your body to breathe freely.

Shave your armpits regularly

Hairy armpits are a breeding ground for bacteria. Shaving your armpits regularly can help prevent the accumulation of bacteria and can keep your underarms clean and odour free. It can also allow free airflow and eliminate any foul smells.

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Etiquette

Who should foot the bill?

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April 11, 2021

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When you are on a date, who should foot the bill?

For a few moments imagine the following scenario. You are a pretty, dainty woman of average means. The year is 1940. A debonair gentleman has asked you to accompany him for a nice meal at a splendid Italian restaurant- understated but quite fine. Fast forward a week later, he picks you up in his 1939 Cadillac Sixty Special. He opens the door for you, helps you into your seat and whisks you away. After some light chatter in the car, you both arrive at the restaurant and time flies. You indulge in excellent Sicilian cuisine, and fine wine and bask in the light of each other’s company. The night ends, the maitre d’ places the bill in his hand. He hands over the cash and the waiter thanks him. It was a seamless, flawless evening.

How times have changed

Fast forward almost 80 years later, things have changed dramatically. Chants and protests abound across the globe. The advocating of women’s rights ring through western society and feminism- let’s not forget feminism is the ‘it’-word of this decade. Feminists staunchly exert their rights of equal pay, equal opportunities and gender equality- and rightly so.

Let’s take the Nordic countries for example. If a man and woman go on a dinner date, it is apparently a given that they split the bill in half. No questions asked. Travel eastwards to Saudi Arabia and other middle eastern countries and this kind of practice is practically unheard of. Culture absolutely is a deciding factor on who pays the bill on a first date and even subsequent dates. In the western part of the world for example the UK there are many factors which determine who should foot the bill. This could include how informal the meeting is, who instigated the date and how familiar you are with each other before taking this step. In this day and age we should not assume that because we are a woman, we are automatically exempt from paying the bill although there is a general consensus that the person who normally instigates the date is the one who foots the bill. As an elegant woman however, it is essential that the following points are adhered to when on a date with someone. Ten dining tips for the woman of elegance.

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Beauty

Let’s Talk Nails

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April 11, 2021

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Let’s talk about how to create elegant nails and feminine hands.

The beauty industry in the UK is currently valued at £4 billion. £1.7 billion of this is attributed to the nail industry. Why is such a small and seemingly inconspicuous part of our exterior given so much attention? Well, it’s all in the detail. A woman’s hands are considered to be one of the most feminine parts of her body. One that is exposed on a day-to-day basis. It is easy to see how much a woman looks after herself by looking at the state of her hands- which obviously includes her fingernails.

You just have to consult social media and see the variety of designs nail artists are able to create- from the simple and elegant to the wacky and wonderful. Well, ladies, there is no need to spell out that we are aspiring to the latter.

Before we get into discussing nail colours and designs, it is important to go back to the drawing board and ensure that the foundations are correct before the decorations. We want to ensure that our hands (and feet of course!) are supple, shiny, well moisturised and our fingernails unchipped and cuticle free.

Follow these steps to ensure your hands are beautifully feminine with elegant nails for 2020

Soak your fingers in olive oil for 2 minutes every day for 2 weeks. This will moisturise your nail bases and provide them with much needed organic moisture.
Increase your calcium intake– if possible, do this naturally. However, if you do decide to take supplements, do so under proper medical supervision
Cut off excess cuticles. Dead skin surrounding your nails are unattractive and annoying. Be sure to trim these away prior to polishing them
Start taking biotin– This mineral is truly essential for healthy nails, skin and hair. It is available in liquid or tablet form and gives your nails the essential nutrients it needs to grow strong and bright.
Moisturise, moisturise, moisturise– Ladies, please do not think that you can get away with washing your hands and simply drying them. You need more than that. Moisturise your hands every time you wash them or even at the first sign of dryness. If you do have dry hands only a continuous moisturising regime will eliminate this. Get into the habit of doing this regularly.

Elegant nail designs for elegant ladies

Now that we have spoken about how to get exceptionally ladylike hands, let us now move on to nail colours and the designs you should avoid vs the styles you should wear for the ultimate elegant nails.

We have seen it all. From crystal clad colours of the rainbow to the pointed shapes which look like the claws of an ostrich. Even though these may be appropriate as an art form, for the everyday elegant look and even during glam evening events, these should really be avoided.

French manicures always win No matter what the occasion may be, you can never go wrong with a French manicure. They are classy, beautiful and chic. Timeless and stunning.
Red nails look beautiful– especially in the winter. Whether you opt for a short or long look, red talons look sultry and classy- sometimes leaning on the side of naughty too!
Neutral colours are also stunning Colours such as light pink, white, mauve and even clear are very classy. You can’t really go wrong with these colours.
Avoid bright, garish colours The women of Windsor are forbidden from colouring their nails- they are advised to stick to neutral shades of white and subtle pink for the simple fact that these are the most elegant colours on the palate. However, if we are to choose colours, these should not be loud.
Steer away from beige hues These tend to make your nails look like you have been smoking for years- and it’s starting to show!

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Style

Our favorite ballet pumps for 2020

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April 11, 2021

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Ballet pumps and flat shoes are such an important staple as they are the kind of shoes you wear on a day to day basis whether going for a casual lunch or within the office. Not only must they fit correctly, but they must also be sturdy enough to withstand the constant friction against the floor and gritty surfaces- there is nothing worse than a worn out flat heel. It is worth investing in a good quality pair of ballet pumps which will last you a long time or else you could end up spending more money in the long run having to replace cheap shoes frequently. Here is a list of our favourite flats this decade

Dior J’adior Ballet pumps in technical canvas £560

These shoes are a timeless classy shoe that is worth investing in. They can be worn with any outfits from casual to formal.

Russell and Bromley Quilted Ballet Flats £185

If you don’t want to splurge on a pair of designer flats, these quilted pair from Russell & Bromley are a great alternative.

Chanel- Leather ballet flats £560

This beautiful pair by Chanel are a timeless wardrobe accessory which are extremely comfortable and chic.

Tory Burch Minnie Travel Ballet pumps £225

These gorgeous leather pumps are excellent quality and are super chic. If you don’t wan’t to splurge a huge amount on flats, this is definitely a great alternative.

Jimmy Choo- GALA Black Flora Lace Painty Flats- £495

These lace beauties are definitely a great alternative to heels on a dinner night with the girls. The are also excellent to wear in the office.

Manolo Blahnik Hangisi £750

These are definitely the creme de la creme of flat shoes. The distinctive Swarovski motif is eye catching and the satin is absolutely stunning. These are a beautiful shoe to wear on different occasions from weddings to breakfast mornings at Cafe de Paris.

Hobbs- Women’s Prior Ballerina Zebra- £69

These shoes are super cute and are versatile. The Zebra print can be worn with many plain colours and in many settings.

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Style

How to Wear Pleated Skirts

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April 11, 2021

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Want to look elegant in pleated skirts? They are increasingly making a comeback on our runways. They were everywhere during the 70’s and 80’s and have solidified their place as a fashion item that every elegant woman should own. These skirts not only elegant but are very versatile from pairing them with jumpers for a casual boohoo chic look to wearing them with off shoulder tops. These skirts can be worn for a variety of occasions.

Pleated skirts are amazing as they are so versatile so don’t be afraid to wear them with high heel boots for a more formal look or even open toe sandals for a comfy yet elegant look. They are also excellent for women who are particularly top heavy as its flare design tends to hide any bulges underneath. Wear a double breasted blazer and a waist belt with your pleated skirt for an elegant chic look.

Pleated skirts are also a favourite wardrobe staple as they tend to come in a variety of materials such as leather, suede, silk and chiffon and can be worn with most outfits. Wearing one with a thick, acrylic jumper will ensure you are stylish and kept warm during the winter months.

Don’t shy away from bold colours when wearing pleated skits. They are such a modest, classy item of clothing that you can afford to experiment with colours you wouldn’t normally wear.

Pleated skirts are perfect for creating the smart boohoo look so if this is the look you are going for, don’t be afraid to team your ankle length skirt with an oversized blazer for a festival chic look.

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How to be stylish during the Winter Months

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April 11, 2021

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Ladies, for some of you, being stylish during the harsh bitterly cold months is something that many may not give much thought to. However, it is not as hard as you may think! If we want to exude elegance throughout the year, we must not forget to ensure our winter wardrobe is also up to standard. By adding these pieces to your wardrobe, you can ensure that you are as stylish, elegant and warm during the winter.

Wool coat

Woolen or wool mix coats are such a great staple as not only do they look great, they provide such good insulation to help keep the cold at bay. If you are looking for something more luxurious, invest in a cashmere blend coat with feels and looks sublime. It can also keep you warm when you have to endure sub zero temperatures.

Leather gloves

Ladies this is a must! There is nothing more elegant than coming well prepared-fabulously! Leather gloves look great and keep your fingers very warm. Thinner gloves look great but are not as insulating as thicker gloves. If you also want to add a luxurious feel, invest in a pair with gorgeous fur trims.

Fur Coat

Wearing this wardrobe staple is probably one of the easiest ways to look luxurious in the winter. Depending on how you do wear it, you could instantly level up your look and look amazing at the same time. When choosing a fur coat (or a faux fur if you are that way inclined), choose a coat that is true to size. If you go a size up, you risk looking like a giant furball. Go a size down, the sleeves and the body of the coat will look short and could ruin your look. If you are wearing a long evening gown, opt for either a full-length coat or a midi coat if you find a full-length coat too opulent looking.

A short fur coats looks great with a pair of jeans but avoid when wearing with long dresses. Stick to neutral colours such as brown, navy, black and white. You risk leaning towards street style fashion with louder colours.

A beautiful silk scarf is a beautiful accessory to complete any look. Instagram: victoria_fox0001

Don’t over accessorise when wearing a fur coat if you hope to exude elegance; you may risk looking overdone. Remember that quality is key- there is nothing worse than seeing faux fur coats that look borderline plastic. If you are choosing a faux fur coat, please invest in a good quality coat as this will improve your overall look.

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